Christmas is a unique and fun time of year in which we get to do things and enjoy things we don’t normally get to do and enjoy. For example, at this time of year, we get to decorate our homes and houses of worship and even public places with trees and ornaments and lights and various things. We get to enjoy Christmas music, some of which is worshipful and some of which is just fun—although I must admit that I would pay Caribou Coffee to stop playing I’m Dreaming of a White Christmas set to rap music!
We get to enjoy special foods and drinks like Swedish coffee bread and Christmas cookies and eggnog. And although Christians sometimes do, and probably should, struggle with the commercialization of Christmas, it is still fun to buy thoughtful presents and wrap them up and surprise one another. In fact, this year our daughter Rachel asked for a mixer, and so we bought her a decent one along with all the fixings for Swedish coffee bread. This way, she was happy to begin with and we were happy later!
We get to enjoy special foods and drinks like Swedish coffee bread and Christmas cookies and eggnog. And although Christians sometimes do, and probably should, struggle with the commercialization of Christmas, it is still fun to buy thoughtful presents and wrap them up and surprise one another. In fact, this year our daughter Rachel asked for a mixer, and so we bought her a decent one along with all the fixings for Swedish coffee bread. This way, she was happy to begin with and we were happy later!
And in addition to the uniqueness and fun of this time of year, Christmas is also a profound celebration. Christmas is the time we praise God for the fact that Jesus Christ, though he is God, emptied himself and took on flesh. We call this the incarnation, the process of God becoming a man, and while this process is stunning in itself, the reason for the incarnation strikes even more awe into our hearts.
Although Adam and Eve and every human being after them has willfully turned their hearts away from God; although this great sin of neglecting and disrespecting our Creator has brought upon us the just anger and punishment of God; although no human being could possibly pay the price for offending an infinitely valuable and holy God; although no human being could possibly restore their relationship with God on their own—God himself became a human being in the person of Jesus Christ so that he might live a righteous life and fulfill all of the life-giving commands of God, that he might die the death that sinners deserve to die, that he might overcome death by being raised again from the dead, and that he might ascend again into heaven where he remains seated to this day as the eternal King and High Priest of heaven and earth, so that whoever believes in him will not perish but have everlasting life. Whoever believes in him is forgiven of all their sins, restored to a right relationship with God, and granted the ultimate surprising gift of eternal life. Indeed, the wisdom, grace, humility, and power of God that brought about the incarnation are profound and awe-inspiring and stunning and worthy of an annual season of reflection, thanksgiving, and worship.
And yet, even while we acknowledge that Christmas is unique and fun and profound, we must also acknowledge that for many people this time of year is very painful. In these days, some of us feel the sting of death as we deal with the loss of loved ones. Some of us are forced to deal with the complexities and realities of blended families. Some of us struggle with the fact that we’re low-to-very-low on money and can’t afford the things with which we’d like to surprise and bless others. Some of us have few or no loved ones around us and we have to experience the pain of being alone while others are enjoying time with their families and friends.
And in addition to our personal struggles at this time of year, the truth of the matter is that the incarnation of Jesus came with great pain. For example, the circumstances of Jesus’ birth were questioned and are still questioned to this day. His early days were filled with tumultuousness. As he grew, his own family was divided over him and acted differently toward him. And ultimately, although he came as a manifestation of the grace of God to the world, some of the leaders of his own people turned against him, arrested him, convicted him, tortured him, and crucified him. In the end, he overcame their evil plots and used their betrayal to provide salvation for the world, but the point remains—the Christmas story and all that followed it was profound and it was painful.
The truth of the matter is that Christmas is about hope breaking into the midst of despair, light breaking into overwhelming darkness, healing breaking into debilitating sickness and disease. And because this is true, there was great joy and great pain in the incarnation, there is great joy and great pain involved in our experience of the grace of God in Christ today, and there will be great joy and great pain until the day when Jesus comes again and brings everything to its appointed end.
Friends, until we understand that Christmas is about joy and pain, we will never understand Christmas and we will never celebrate it or worship God for it as we should.
